Tuesday, January 02, 2007

A long and difficult day - Rocio Montagner

Today we had to meet with the mortuaries and it was the most difficult thing a parent can ever do, to plan their child's funeral. I was very blessed to have my 2 sisters join us. When I was confused they would ask the questions. I held it together for most of the meeting, but there came a point when I could no longer hold back the tears, and the tears just would not stop! Our funeral director a mom with a young child could not help but to join us in our sorrow. She said that thankfully they do not see many children and that it is just so difficult. Our appointment took 4 hours, and I just could not take it any longer!
We decided to have a viewing, for us. I just have to see my little angel once again. Most of our family would like to see him also. He is so beautiful.
We will be sending an official e-mail but here is the funeral information:

6300 Forest Lawn Drive Los Angeles, CA 90068
(800) 204-3131
Friday January 5, 2007
Saturday January 6, 2007
FUNERAL- 3:00-4:00 (Church opens at 2:30)

Kelvin was not able to go on his Disney Cruise so we are asking you to please dress in bright colors, cruise attire or with clothing with a Disney character. He loved Disney and he is now on the best cruise ever!

Reception to follow: RED VEST PIZZA
12639 Glenoaks Blvd (In the Ralph's Center)
Sylmar, Ca.91342
(818) 362-1536
Kelvin wanted to have a "Cancer Go Away Party" and wanted to have it at a pizza parlor so in his honer we will celebrate his life here.

If you have any question please call Ruby Flores at (909 )503-2476 or Diana Barba at (818) 419-6734. In lieu of flowers we are asking that you make a donation to the "Kelvin Montagner Donation Fund" Wells Fargo Acct. #645-2171355. We will be dispersing some of the funds to Kelvin's & family's favorite charities: Padres Contra Cancer (sponsoring a dinner for families at the hospital), Chase Child Life Program (To help the playroom open on weekends & toys), The National Children's Cancer Society and Hoffmen Hospice (Helped us keep Kelvin comfortable everyday). Envelopes will be provided at the service.

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